Lauren Hayes

I love outdoors, hiking, travel; normally travel 2x/year, not since Spring 2010. Goal is to do what I love again after overcoming some unexpected curveballs.

I'n a dedicated, capable, web/IT professional who loved my job. My work was also an interest, thus I was happy to work hard, learn more, and fulfill my ever growing interests. I miss that as part of my daily work routine.

After 10yrs I resigned from my job Aug 2012. Had follow-ups already scheduled, workplace couldn't accommodate with add'l time. Forced to choose, I prioritized health.

I remain fortunate in many ways despite tough times now.

Deric is a loving, committed life-partner & best friend. He's a good, honest, selfless person who cares deeply for me.

I'm also now closer with my family, especially my mom.

Real friends emerged and stuck by me. Others showed true colors and took off.

There is always a silver lining. I always look for it.

Note: I'm lilydalelah, a usernane unique to me for 10 years, until smear-campaign began. Please don't confuse the impersonator/cyberstalker who launched attaks to defame around 3/2011. This person has also impersonated my legal name, applicable keywords, real personal data mixed with smears to create lies that appear as me (a terrible fictitous version).

Deric was impersonated in his legal name since spelling is so unique.

Tactics change/escalate over time. I see this clearly.

The perpetrator is a disturbed individual working a malicious vendetta & refuses to move on.

All who know us should see clear distinction: We have scruples. We're honest, ethical, educated IT professionals. If content doesn't reflect that, it's not us.

We didn't go crazy, become mean, turn into morons. We don't engage in disgusting, tasteless behavior, watch p0rn, or harbor sordid secrets.

We're happily-monogamous; we respect & love each other. We don't cheat, lie, or behave in amoral ways. We don't post personal medical comments "disgusting" in topic matter (those are smears; malicious SEO linking me to keywords).

We're nice people.

If content from "us" falls into these categories or seems "off", it's smear content.

I must ignore it to prioritize my health, but it's damaging & dangerous. I need your help and hope you contact me re anything suspicious. Thanks.

Lauren (Lilydalelah)