Rebecca LaBonte-Shambley
the sunny world of northern California
I am a 40 yr old, mom of five, three of whom are biologically mine. I have traveled through the U.S. and parts of Europe thanks to having married into the Army. My major in college was communication, and I was a gold medal member of our debate team. I love intelligent people, who realize how little one can truly know. I will talk to just about anyone until you irritate me with something like intolerance. Yes, my intolerance in life is just that.. intolerance.
I am raising two of my sons and my bonus daughter, as well as sharing custody of my youngest son. My eldest daughter was also a gift to me, that came when she was sixteen. She is now a strong, beautiful and determined mother of two herself. I am recently married to my forever mate, whom I have been blessed with for the past six years plus. He is my best friend, my love, and my biggest supporter. That thing everyone looks for, we were lucky enough to find..
I have been a practicing pagan for the past sixteen years, primarily because nothing else fit me. It allows me to validate l walks of life and spirituality, as well as supporting my own beliefs. I believe that all beliefs are positive as long as they make you a better person. I do not subscribe to the belief that my path is the only right path and have no patience for those with that mindset. We all came to the same place, all religions share certain aspects and I believe there is reason for that. Do NOT try to convert me, I will block/ignore/report those folks.
If you still have questions you are doing to have me answer, well, ask away, you brave soul, I hide nothing:)