Love n let love... Live n let live ...!!!!!!
When we talk about understanding, surely it takes place only when the mind listens completely -- the mind being your heart, your nerves, your ears -- when you give your whole attention to it.
understanding is based on bonding and bonding is based on people nature towards each other in form of friendship, attraction, love, concern for each other. undrstanding is a silent element which can be feel and not shown.