Aashiq Yohan
Student, Artist, and Photographer in Colombo, Sri Lanka
Hi I am Yohan, I’m an introvert, there’s no question about it. Doesn't mean I’m shy, lonely or sad, I like being alone and I’m good at it, and I avoid confrontation at all cost. I’ve always been this way, and I’m fine with it. Being an introvert has its good and bad sides, and I guess so does being an extrovert.I’m not so good at making new friends. I find it hard to approach new people without a good reason, and approaching them simply just because is just out of the question. Unless the people I meet have the kind of personality that I immediately identify with it can be awkward and weird to hang out with them at first. As nice as some people are, it takes time for me to form a bond strong enough to really be at ease with them. The friendships I have now are extremely important to me, and I want to keep them up, which sometimes makes things hard. I want to reach out to my friends but at the same time I don’t want to push anything. See the problem here? Another thing with friendships that’s sometimes hard, is that some of my friends are EXTROVERTS, with all caps. It makes me tired from time to time, to watch them go, to listen to them talk endlessly, having them ask me if I’m ok because I haven’t said a word in a while. I’m fine, I’m just… I’m fine with silence, and I’m fine with not doing anything. I don’t feel the need to be on all the time. I’m not saying all extroverts do, either, but by definition they do and go and socialise way more than us introverts.oh, I hate phone calls. I never call people, unless I have to. I can honestly say the only two people I call willingly (and only if a text isn’t enough) are my mom and dad. With everyone else I text. I’m not even comfortable with those voice messages on WhatsApp. Nope. Not my thing. I hate asking for help, i don't show much emotion,so reserved, i care too much but i will never show, people find me mysterious,I am addicted to books, good with secrets, I'm actually not that dark hearted or cold as everyone presume,I'm a great listener, i don't like my pictures taken(not because i hate my appearance coz i find it awkward#rareselfies) , i am also a insomniac , i love dogs, writing my own quotes, coffee, books, music, anime, movie, photography and art.. Sometimes singing too, i really like to make new friends but i just suck at it, so if you ever wanna say hi,please do. Damn this a is long ass bio.