"seize the day or die regretting the time you lost"
There's a moment in everybody's life when you realize that every trial and tribulation you've had to face is for a reason. They happen to build character and to learn from, not to bring you down. When you reach that point and can look at yourself clearly, you'll see things for what they really are and I think that is the only time you can make real changes within yourself. I've reached that point and am well on my way to becoming a better me. I owe a lot of who I am now to my wife, my best friend... my perfect person. Without her I really don't know where I'd be and am honestly not sure how I made it this far without her. I am still a quiet guy who keeps to himself, but with her, I can feel things I've never felt, and insecurities seem to vanish. I consider myself to be one of the luckiest men alive to have found everything I need, and everything I want. I like where my life is heading and look forward to what this world has to offer me, knowing I'll never have to walk alone. I also have the most amazing kids ever, Dylan and Alyssa, they are my world and my life and I love spending time with them. I've also been blessed with three more little girls who I consider my own. Britney, Aimee and Kimee, they always make me smile and I am truely grateful to have all of them in my life. They all keep me on my toes and I enjoy every minute of it. While I have changed a lot, I am still quite the same person. I don't like confrontations, I enjoy video games and computers and metal music. I'm extremely easy going and will always do what I can to keep balance and peace.. I am a Libra after all and I think I live up to that pretty well. So all in all, I am not who I was, and I continue to change for the better. And I know it sounds cliche and sappy but love really does change everything. Having someone who loves you and who you love more than anything makes all the difference in the world. Nothing is unbearable, and everything is possible.