Ben Haan

About Me

I'm someone who cares deeply about people and connecting with them authentically. My relationship with Jesus shapes everything I do—how I serve others, lead teams, and engage in meaningful conversations. As a pastor and team leader, I get to live out this passion for people every day by building technology that equips other Pastor's and Churches to reach people digitally, but my heart for others extends far beyond any title.

I'm very much a work in progress in becoming more like Christ—growing in discipline, humility, patience, and intentionality while embracing that I don't have it all figured out. I value integrity, curiosity, and creating space for others to be real.

When I'm not working or serving at church, you'll find me cycling, rock climbing, traveling, working on my house, or flow boarding. I approach life with purpose but also believe in making time to relax and play.

What I'm Looking For

I'm seeking someone who's pursuing a deep, personal relationship with God daily. I appreciate women who bring their own strengths and passions—someone with a well-formed identity who I can admire and laugh with.

I believe marriage is a picture of Christ's sacrificial love for the church and a partnership that amplifies our individual gifts throughout our community. I'm drawn to someone who is intentional, humble, driven, and growth-oriented.

I value taking time to truly know each other (at least a year) before considering engagement, believing that seeing someone through different seasons reveals compatibility for building a life together.

My Vision for Relationship

I believe in creating space for vulnerability and honest communication. I'm committed to handling conflict peacefully and promptly, sharing in decision-making, and maintaining healthy boundaries that honor God's design for relationships.

I bring responsibility, resilience, and loyalty to relationships. I'm also intentionally building community with wise mentors who provide accountability and counsel—something I believe strengthens any relationship.

Let's Talk If...

• You value depth, authenticity, and purpose in relationships
• Your faith is the foundation of your identity and decisions
• You're looking to build something meaningful that serves beyond ourselves
• You appreciate both thoughtful conversations and lighthearted moments
• You see the value in taking time to develop a strong foundation before moving forward

I'm looking forward to connecting with someone who wants to grow together in faith and purpose!