I'm a 40 year old woman. I have made many mistakes, and I learned very valuable lessons each time. Everyone says I'm very courageous, strong smart, and kind to a fault. I am not chasing anybody anymore, I am finally living life the way God intended for me to. I have spent almost 4 years just checking in on a person that HATES me. I have to enjoy the rest of my life, she makes the decisions, she needs to know the TRUTH, it's not even close to the fairy tales that she's been brainwashed with. God bless her, and God bless everyone. Keep smiling.