I grew up a city boy in Dorchester, Ma and had a good life, Life as we all know. is a roller-coaster ride, with its ups and downs , pit falls, and peaks; However, I don't need to ride the coaster alone. Every day can be a struggle, but waking up next to someone that cares makes it easier to face another day; But when you learn that you've been waking next to someone, that you didn't know for years on end, that Roller Coaster breaks in the middle of your ride, just as you're hanging upside down.