hey everyone, my name is:

🌴 Chot •or• Xander 🌴

i'm 24 🌟 he/they pronouns are fine

i am pansexual and polyamorous 💕 i have three partners; my girlfriend claudia, my datemate blaine, and my boyfriend joey. i love them all very much!!

🍍 i'm white, trans male (demiboy), neurodivergent (adhd, general & social anxiety, mild depression, dyslexia) and i am mostly able bodied (i have scoliosis and some hearing issues)

💊 i am unmedicated for everything but i smoke weed to keep things under control so sometimes i talk about that (feel free to unfollow if that makes you uncomfortable)

🎨 i love to draw & i make things, i work retail part time and i take art commissions on the side

🔮 i am very spiritual, my beliefs lie heavily in wicca with a bit of buddhism. i classify myself as a witch and i mostly practice positive earth magic.

👽 i believe in ghosts, aliens, and most things regarding the paranormal. i love talking about these things so please message me if you're interested in them & want to talk about them!

🐾 i am otherkin! it helps me cope a lot with the negative stress in my life and improves my mental health considerably

🌙 main kin types:

• monsters! this specifically includes: kaiju, werewolves, demons, goblins, & general non-humanoid monsters

• monkeys (capuchins, snow monkeys, & mandrills primarily)

• plushies/toys (mainly stuffed animals)

🌈 i am also fictionkin! i won't list them all here but feel free to ask about my kintypes!

(i have a few synpaths as well, feel free to ask about them!)

🌸 tagging me as any of these is appreciated!! (double tagging is fine)

🍑 i'm fine with being friends with people who share my kins & my friends' kins as well!

❌ triggers: (please use warnings when posting these)

• animal abuse

• holocaust photos

• hand/finger trauma/gore

✖ do not follow me if:

• you are transphobic, homophobic, racist, ableist, anti-feminist, "anti-sjw", etc

• you believe in "reverse racism", "misandry", "cisphobia", "heterophobia", ect

• you support rape in any way

• you defend underage shipping or sexualized imagery of young people or characters

• you are under the age of 15

thanks a bunch if you read this far!!

one last thing: dm/message me to follow if i don't already know you 🌙