Dan Alexander
Erie, Pennsylvania
I'm a guy who's realized that he's been overlooking the most important things in life. I had a very limited one way mind for the longest time. I recently had my heart shattered by the love of my life Britney and it was all my fault. All I can say is that it's never too late to make things right. Don't lose focus on what life has to offer. I'm a loving father of 6 beautiful children. My parents and 3 brothers are great people that I'm very thankful to be lucky enough to call my family. I'm new and improved and this time it shows. The negative attitudes I had formed over the years have almost magical just vanished (with the help of one special woman who really opened my eyes) and now I'm more determined than ever to take the steps I need to take in order to get myself into a living condition I actually love and can be proud of. I'm a very hard worker and give everything my all at any job I work at. I'm a singer, songwriter with a huge variety of songs that range from hip hop to love songs. You won't find another performer quite like me, and I can say that because it's true. I'm a very modest guy but I know what I'm good at and music is definitely my calling. I'm a workout nut and I love fitness. I once weighed 255 and now I'm down to my perfect weight of 175-180 and I'm just packing on muscle and getting stronger by the day. I enjoy eating healthy and don't eat junk food or drink pop or garbage drinks. I'm a guy who likes to cut loose and have fun. I can party with the best of them but I'm also more of the stay at home, watch movies, play games and spend time with kids and family type of guy. (And my girl, if I wouldn't have been such a shlub before.) I believe everyone can benefit from knowing me because I truly care about people and life in general. I always used to say, "I could be every guy's best friend and every woman's man" but now I just want to be good to the people I meet and I still believe that I could be everyone's best friend. There is only 1 woman who's man I could be. She's totally captured my heart and made me into the great person I am today. I'm head over heels in love with Britney Wright and one day I hope she'll let me back in her heart and see that I'm not anything like the hurtful man I used to be. I always used to say "I'm going to save the world..." and I do feel that I have a substantial reason for being on Earth. Now I take it one day at a time and improve on my body, mind and inner self so that I can be the best father, son, brother, friend and hopefully someday not ex-boyfriend that I can be. If you can't tell, I've grown up and done a hell of a lot of soul searching this year and i can finally say that I'm proud of myself and mean it. I will continue to build and no longer be the human wrecking ball that I was. I can truly forgive myself for all the wrongs I've done in my past, the crimes I've committed as a young adult and the variety of foul and hurtful things I've done and said in my life. Because my friends, if you can't forgive yourself for the mistakes and bad decisions you've made, nobody will. It all starts there and from that point it's nothing but uphill from then on out. I can honestly say that I won't go back to my old ways again because all they did was keep me in a state of depression and I couldn't live with the guilt I felt inside. Too bad I figured myself out so late... I wonder what the last almost 7 years would've been like if I would've really believed in myself and felt the way I do about everything now... Love life, be happy with what you have and value the people and things that are important to you. Because if you don't, you'll never achieve your true potential. And now that I've found the me that I had lost so many years ago and have been molded and shaped into this great person that I am through the years of pain, struggle and hard work, I WILL be the person I've always wanted to be and I can now take my place in history. I am successful. No more wanting to be. Just being. I could go on forever about me because I'm a complex kinda guy but if anyone wants to know more, that's what messages are for. Grow. Improve. Live! Dan