Delanie Smith

I feel a strong sense of responsibility and duty. I take my responsibilities very seriously, and can be counted on to follow through. For this reason, people naturally tend to rely on me. I have a difficult time saying "no" when asked to do something, and may become over-burdened. In such cases, I do not usually express my difficulties to others, because I intensely dislike conflict, and because I tend to place other people's needs over my own. When down on myself or under great stress, I begin to imagine all of the things that might go critically wrong in my life. I have strong feelings of inadequacy, and become convinced that "everything is all wrong", or "I can't do anything right". Aside from that, I am warm, generous, and dependable. I also have many special gifts to offer, in my sensitivity to others, and my strong ability to keep things running smoothly. Although, I need to remember to not be overly critical of myself, and to give myself some of the warmth and love which I freely dispense to others.