elli boland
hi! my name is elli, age 34, married to my lobster Dan, recovered control freak. most my life i wondered how i can create lasting happiness in my life. i looked everywhere outside myself, found great sensory pleasures, yet remained feeling empty inside and prisoner of all the rules and control. slowly with consistant guidance i got it that happiness comes from within. after attemting a bunch of different things to make myself better,thinner,more populare,richer, i realized that none of this will fill me up. all of those things are super fun and i am wildly passionate about all different ways to create those things for ourselves, the only difference now-my happiness does not depend on those things anymore. i thought like most people that once i am healthy and at my ideal weight,-then i ll be happy, or once i am rich,-then i ll happy. now i believe that it is the other way around-when we are happy, we will be heathy.
so my life's purpose is to use my Compassion and Inspirations to help others live empowered amidst life's challenges, joyful and present, aware and accepting, fit and fabulous, perfectly imperfect, aware and accepting, peacefully in love with oneself and the world.
i didn't jump out of the womb happy, healthy and empowered. actually, i came with my feet first. In my few 34 years I have overcome great challenges in many areas of my life. since i was a little girl i know that i am here to help others find joy, love, harmony and laughter. i am on a quest for the keys to it all; happiness, health, wealth, peace, and fullfillment.
i am most fullfilled being with people and coming up with ways to find their purpose, to figure out what they really want, how to communicate that to others authentically, mindfully and kindly, to find an ideal diet and exercise balance, basically to live their rockstar life.
what really moves me and upsets me is seeing other women struggle in areas that i have struggled myself and overcame those obstacles. i grew up in germany and moved to the states at age 23 to be with my american-most awesomest- husband of nearly 10 years, Dan. i am fascianted by american culture and society and also moved to do something by the issues that have developed in our fast modern world.
are you happy, healthy, giggle a ton, and fullfilled in your career, your relationships, with your material posessions, your contribution to the community/world, with your health and fitness, your finances, and