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On the twenty second day of July in the year of our Lord 2013 I was unceremoniously dumped from a woman's life who I loved dearly for whatever reason on a fleeting meeting nearly five years ago. We had kept in touch, she had become engaged, happily as I understood it, until earlier this year, when she started making much more frequent contact, it seems because of her unhappiness with her fiance.

I remember there was a time, those apparently 'happy times' when I barely heard from her. When, as I now realise, things were looking grim then the contacts became of increased frequency.

I had four+ terrible months of heartbreak when she seemed afflicted with paralysis and refused to leave him and the home despite a history of violence and arguments and conflict. I offered any help I could to alleviate her distress with no-strings attached. The description given to me by her there was something akin to a pathetic pantomime. Whatever I said to her made no difference, and yet eleven days in Budapest and suddenly dramas occur.

She went back to her home in Hungary for eleven days, returned on 21st July to her home in Norway, and told her fiance that the engagement was off. The following day I received a one line email telling me, in a very thinly veiled remark, that I was also being shunted out immediately of her life except for some tiny possibility we might meet some time for this tea, but not in the near future.
What was it, or who was it, that happened on those eleven days down in Hungary?
She told me that I had 'to be without hope' which, in effect, means there is no possibility of he being interested in me in any way except, as it had now become, having 'a cup of tea' together. Well a cup of tea would be nice enough with your Auntie or if we had not made such comments to one another but it hardly rang the same chimes as what had been said for so long from both sides. It was , of course, a thin disguise.

Bearing in mind this lady had told me that 'maybe' she 'was in love with me' amongst many other transparent (transparent now) gestures made that I was all too eager to grab in my affection for her. I thought enough of her to resist her request for me to visit her whilst she was on her own in Budapest, because, to me, she was still somebody's fiancee, and I was not interested in some week of fun and then it all finished as abru...Continued at https://plus.google.com/105773930911288379090/posts?partnerid=gplp0