I'm a guy in his mid-forties, twice divorced and with a son that lives 1500 miles away. I am severely under-employed and estranged from my entire family (by their choice). The good news is that I am living with the love of my life. We met 30 years ago. Long distance relationships were tough for teenagers in the 80's. Went our separate ways and found each other again. She grounds me. She's my lobster.