I am happily married to the greatest guy ever. I have one son named Sean. We spend a great deal of time going on rollercoasters. Steve and I are have been together since 1982. My life has changed since high school. I am married, have a child and my views point on life has definately changed. I no longer believe in a that all people belong together like they portray on soap operas. As for my relationship. my husband and I have true love. I would put my neck on the line for him. I go out of my way to make sure that he is happy . My life is rough now. I have to take care of a 87 year old mother, along with keeping our home. Is marriage worth it, you bet, if you truly found the one guy that loves you with all his heart. If you have that type of love then don't abuse it. It only comes around once. Be caring and make your husband happy, then in the long run, nothing can ,come iin the middle of your marriage. This might seems a little lame to you, but if it does then look outside the box and see if your relationship with your spouse is true love,. If it isn't then you will see my relationship and the way I treat my husband as being lame. These are my views and what I stand for. Thiis is what Goid wants for all of us