I am a woman, a mom, a wife, a friend, a sister, a daughter, a granddaughter, a neighbor, an acquaintance, a stanger. I am just like you, but just like you, we all do things a little differently. Due to an incredible life changing moment almost a year ago, I am doing things differently and every. single. day. I am profoundly flabbergasted. Whether it be at something someone says or does. Something I see or read on line or TV, a conversation with a friend, neighbor, family member or acquaintance. I am forever flabbergasted by the things people say, whether it be heartwarmingly good, or sadly, how they judge and how we treat each other. Instead of laying awake at night reeling or marveling in it, I have decided to write about it, so maybe, you can be flabbergasted too. Judge away!