geoffreyowen321
United Kingdom
geoffreyowen321
United Kingdom
Typical Scenario – Husband watches a lot of TV!
Get your husband to watch less TV and pay you more attention – without even asking him!
If your husband is choosing to watch TV instead of interacting with you, it is likely that the two of you are communicating poorly, and you need to improve your communication skills. You are likely to feel lonely, even whilst living with a partner. You can fall into habits and routines, and it is easy for you to forget to take the time to engage and connect.
A friend of mine, who has been married for ten years, confided to me that she was feeling increasingly isolated. Even though her husband still spent a great deal of time at home, he seemed to prefer watching TV to spending time talking to her. If she suggested they go for a walk, he would say he wanted to watch the football; if she laid the table for dinner, he would take his meal to the TV. She told me that she felt neglected and worthless. She worried that it was her fault, but feared confrontation and or rejection if she raised the issue with him.
Sound familiar?
OK, you don’t have to be a husband or wife to get this or in a close relationship…
I said to her that she needs to focus on herself and not her husband…
That she needs to look at what’s going on with herself…
She needs to keep close company with herself and start to commune with the person she presents to the world and how she does that.
She needs to get back to who she is.
She needs to explore her authenticity.
If you are feeling isolated in a relationship of any kind then working on your communication skills will most certainly help…
‘But not quite as we know it Jim’
Using some fundamental principles of Stage Presence learned during my 20 years plus experience as a Training Actor, Personal Development Coach and Champion Athlete, I have created a unique and energetic process that improves communication skills with the self before others. The energetic process uses the stage and stage craft to get you to experience what I call ‘Authentic Power’.
The process is about getting back to basics, getting back to the core of a person, by removing the ‘mask of convention’ to release the authentic core of you and what makes you, you.
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