This is one of my favorite quotes: (it defines what I have been through and what will keep me going)

Keep in mind that we should always thank those who hurt us, especially those who did so bad, because of them we are forced to transform. They risk the eternal verdict of going to hell just to make us better than who we are.

I just want to focus on my children, down to earth , sweet and a loving person . A true friend to those who are really my friends and always available to lend an ear for advise. Im also a marian devotee. A partner in life is not a priority but if the right person will come and he is my match then it is meant to be.