I want to help girls learn that love is a feeling that can come and go. I believe that when we have met the "perfect" man he will truly be your very best friend. Better than any girlfriend you've had. And you will be a better friend to him than any guy friend he has ever had. I've been with my husband for 17yrs and we will be married 16 this yr. yay. One thing that has been different for us than my friends failed or dysfunctional marriages is that we have always been each others first friend above all else. I hope to teach others this. Ultimately God is first in any relationship. My husband, 4 kids and I have been through it all, and love is the key to our life staying strong but for my marriage if my husband had not first became friends and like so many others had sex or some other thing be the core to our relationship when the hardships hit we would have fell apart. I want to see others have strong marriages. Not just stay married because it's the right thing to do or whatever the reason is. I am more in love today than I was 17yrs ago. And that is not seen much. I hope somehow that God can use me to help other girls see there value and worth.