About me: I am a Widow, an IT Manager, an Expert Computer Consultant, a Guitarist and expert on 80’s Alternative Music. I am a dual Certified Network Engineer with a US Government DOD Secret Clearance. I have owned a house followed my daughters I have two beautiful daughters: Tatiana(13) and Paulina(12) I love my daughters, alternative music, movies and comedy. I snow ski, water ski and have a 150 IQ. I value family and friendships above typical male pursuits. I am involved in Technology, Social Networking, Web Design, SEO and SEM. I have been heavily involved in alternative music, modeled I have a good heart and soul and love children, animals, meeting new people and having new adventures. I love the beach and the ocean. I work as a computer consultant for Dell, write music and go to concerts. I spend a lot of time with my daughters at Disneyland and different local places that are fun for them. I guess some things I would consider myself to be good at would be: Love, music, compassion, wisdom, wit, comedy, dancing, computers, children, and traveling. I think for me it happened differently, What myself and my daughters miss so much in our life is their mum and my wife , She died of Cancer years ago ,I gave up on loving any woman but right now I'm taking a step back and I'm sure i need a loving woman and a mother for my beautiful daughters I'm looking for a woman, lady who loves life,kids and enjoys spending time of just sure joy living in the moment and loves someone who cares to make a difference, likes to travel, likes almost all outdoors activities , likes to soak up in the sun while playing, play with me in the snow, massages , dancing and more... Well I guess there:s more to it than that but most of all can make me and my kids laugh and someone who loves to try new things and fed frozen strawberries with choco dip in a hot shower Yummy !! ( [email protected] )