kishan saini

I thought his jealousy and constant over-protectiveness was romantic at first. I thought this proved just how much he loved and needed me. I realize now that this was just another way for him to control me. I was only property.

1. He used to tell me that if I ever tried to leave, he would get custody of the kids. He threatened he would tell the judge how crazy I was and that I was a bad mother. I believed him.
2. Whenever we would get in fights he would hide my purse and keys so I couldn't leave. He once took the carseats so that I couldn't leave with the kids. I felt so powerless.
3. I could never put my finger on what the problem was. I felt crazy at times and there were so many times that I would approach him with a very well-thought out point, but he had such a way of twisting things that I'd walk away feeling confused and unable to even remember my point. I eventually learned the concept of 'crazy-making' and realized that this was what he was doing to me all along.
4. The best word I could use to describe him is a 'tornado.' He ripped through my life destroying my relationships, my self-esteem, my confidence and I constantly felt anxious, depressed and sometimes downright crazy.
5. The best word I could use to describe him is a 'tornado.' He ripped through my life destroying my relationships, my self-esteem, my confidence and I constantly felt anxious, depressed and sometimes downright crazy.
   
6. He wouldn't lift a finger to help with the kids or house, yet sure had no problem dishing out criticism after criticism. Nothing I did was good enough.
   
7. The biggest point I could make to a woman is listen to your friends and family- if they are telling you that something doesn't look or feel right about your partner, they are probably correct.
   
8. Being in an abusive relationship is nothing to be ashamed of or to fear what others will think.
   
9. An abusive relationship is nothing to take lightly - whether it is physical or emotional.
   
10. There are many signs of an abusive relationship. The most telling sign is fear of your partner. If you feel like you have to walk on eggshells around your partnerconstantly watching what you say and do in orde