If there ever was any question in your mind where adult domestic violence has its roots-put your inquisitive mind at rest. I-t starts with your kids!! In a current study partnered by Teenage Research Unlimited and the Liz Claiborne Corp., teens 13-18 were questioned on the fre-quency of relationship violence in their lives.
The study unmasked some surprising statistics and facts about the teen dating world. Among many results are that a significant percentage of adolescents not merely are victims of dating punishment but also they take it as usual and that they feel forced to have and keep connections specially if it's a serious one.
Teens in these critical connections record by nearly a 2 to 1 margin more abuse, managing and even violent behavior when compared with other kids.
The analysis also showed that:
2011-12 in a significant romance report being hit, slapped or pushed
30 % statement being concerned about their physical security
64-42 statement preventing behavior
55% compromise their beliefs to please their partner
6-12 reported having someone who made them feel bad or embarrassed about themselves
2500-4000 record being in a partnership where their partner set them down or called them names
29-foot said they were pressured to have sex they don't want.
50% of women fear that their partner can break up together if they don't consent to engage in sex
It is no surprise that this problem exists with adolescent male belief systems that include:
Controlling their lovers
Possessing their partners
Physical violence is the thing to do
Young female beliefs include:
Theres no source for help
Abuse is normal because their colleagues are abused
Jealousy, possessiveness and even abuse are passionate
Traditionally other reports and surveys support these findings. This astonishing lee mcfarland site has assorted offensive tips for how to allow for it. This acts as pretty reliable evidence that teens grow up in a culture that frowns on adult domestic violence, yet it seems they serve their apprenticeships in high school learning the nuances of just how to abuse. Do they learn by themselves or do they learn from their abusive parents? It's a really difficu