I'm a trans woman, burlesque MC, domme, author, comedian, podcaster, sadist, musician, performance artist, computer professional, fetishist, and cult leader. I'm often being much of the above simultaneously. I used to describe myself as "The original polyamorous metalhead leatherdyke transsexual ubergeek SubGenius minister known to most as 'Lil'"--but really, doesn't that seem a bit limiting...!?