marilee ruebsamen phd

Psychologist in San Jose, California

Active Mom and Nana, Psychologist, US/Global Humanitarian promoting collaboration for child assistance and protection, safe, unencumbered access to quality, partnered, health and mental health services, education in order to diminish the causes of suffering; promote sources of wellbeing, healing; and joy for children and families.

Founding Director of Abbey Psychological Services (abbeypsychservices.com) for warm, mindful, compassionate psychological care. Provide pediatric, family, adult consultation, assessment, treatment, Blue Canoe services (rapid, accessible, no-fee services for homeless, indigent; displaced, seriously ill youth); Abbey Global Consulting for individuals with urgent, complex child/family issues residing in remote, international geopolitically unstable regions.

Founding Executive Director, Always Be Listening Global (alwaysbelisteningglobal.com) training indigenous psychologists, mental health providers, aid workers to assess war/armed conflict affected children's direct, lived war experiences, coping, current trauma symptoms, linking them to treatment in ten countries: Kenya, Uganda, So Sudan, Somalia, Burundi, Ireland, Pakistan, Jordanian camps for Syrian children; Ukraine; So US; Caribbean.

My clinical approach is compassionate, trauma focused, relationship- and assessment based, grounded in attachment, clinical-developmental theory, wisdom traditions; integrates evidence-based, research-informed assessment and treatment. Contemporary trauma theory, cognitive/affective neuroscience findings are deepened by contemplative, mindfulness practice; enriched by ancient Buddhist thought in which the heart is regarded as the relational home.

As Associate Professor, part-time faculty, doctoral program, supervised, taught child. adult development, psychopathology, child, family assessment, child, adult trauma assessment, child, adult test batteries, developed school-based programs. Currently conduct clinical and forensic assessment for various courts, provide expert testimony regard effects on children of violence exposure. Assess and treat survivors of torture, provide treatment in cases of severe, extreme stress, multiple loss, child witness to or victim of extreme crime- homicide, suicide, abduction.

  • Work
    • Abbey Psychological Services
  • Education
    • PALO ALTO UNIVERSITY, PH.D.