i like to know as much as i can about a person…kind of full disclosure…because if that’s who the person is, and you get involved, you’re going to know anyway, so better to know up front. and i like to divulge, in okcupid’s questions section, as much as i can about myself (sometimes with comments to elaborate, sometimes w/humor or sarcasm, to have a voice). thus full disclosure of both helps you hone in on qualities you like and deal breakers you don’t.