It’s pronounced “fee” – phi-is-me. It rhymes. Get it? It comes from a shortened version of my regular online handle which is far too googleable and connected to my real human self to use here.

“Here” being my public-facing blog, which started on FetLife. In the beginning I’ll be copying over some of my most recent and favorite posts from FetLife, but will eventually start posting new stuff as it’s written.

I write a combination of smut, comedy, short stories, introspective essays, and a couple of sappy poems. Most of them have something to do with kink, sex, or relationships – but not all of them.

I am active in my local BDSM community, and am currently in the production stage of creating a new weekly podcast with my co-host CountBoogie, during which we will discuss topics of BDSM, safety, education, and tom-foolery.