RJB (Rajesh Jadavji Barasara)

About my personality

I am interested in the big picture. I like examining large, ambiguous issues and ideas. I carefully weigh all of the variables involved, connect disparate facts in novel ways and regularly come up with imaginative solutions to complex problems. I see holistically and can be visionary.

I am friendly and humane. I have a big heart; I tend to trust people and sympathize with them easily. I intuitively know what they are thinking and feeling. And because I am agreeable and mentally flexible, I go out of my way to make others comfortable and happy. I seek to make intimate, meaningful friendships.

My empathy and altruism spill over into a desire to make the world a better place. And with my resilience and imagination, my ability to do many things at the same time, my people skills and my command of language, I can be remarkably effective at improving the lives of others.

I am also traditional. I have clear moral values and tend to stick to my point of view. Yet I almost always seek consensus and harmony, and am willing to give up some of my pleasures to build an orderly, harmonious home and family life.

Relating to others

I tend to be well-adjusted, trusting, compassionate, intuitive and interested in people. And I work to keep my networks intact. I also look in as well as out; I am introspective. And I like probing the meanings of life. So I avoid casual chit-chat. I can be so agreeable that some people may overlook my complex personality.

Love and relationships

I am a die-hard romantic, and I must have depth and meaning in my relationships. I like heart-to-heart exchanges that explore personal philosophies, goals, ethical dilemmas, and the meanings behind art, music, poetry or some other abstract topic. I am emotionally expressive and want my partner to share her genuine self with me. I also admire people who make plans and schedules. And I am attracted to a mate with a fixed moral compass. Moreover, for me, love must be embedded in a stable long-term relationship ending with a march down the aisle. Most important, to balance my imaginative and supple spirit, I gravitate to people who know their own mind, make decisions quickly, focus on one thing at a time and can provide a stable home. And I can be very sensitive to my mate, communicating my emotions clearly and truthfully.