Just Me

Early 50s. Upper Midwest. submissive. Curvy/full figured. Educator. Mother of a tween. Liberal. Mental health advocate. Vodka martini drinker. Dogs, not cats. Snarky. Coquettish. Opinionated. Longs to give up control to one special person.

ISO a D-type for an IRL, monogamous LTR. Long distance is fine to start, but my ultimate goal is to cohabitate. At a point in my life where I want to find my person (or for Him to find me) and have my last relationship. The kind I’ve always wanted, but never had. Complete and deep respect and trust, allowing me to submit completely to Him. Not just a bedroom-only or kink based dynamic, but a power exchange relationship. Not interested in online only, switching, or poly.

Interests include impact play (exploring my masochism the last couple years), bondage, mental BDSM, edge play, etc. I need someone who can get into my head and bend me to his will. Push my boundaries.