Sumati Sparks

The Midlife Polyamory Coach

WHY WOULD SOMEONE WANT TO BE POLYAMOROUS IN MID-LIFE?

1) People in mid-life tend to be more willing to make choices that are right for us, rather than what society tells us is normal!

2) Often people in mid-life have had ugly divorces and don’t want to go down the road of a traditional marriage again. But they still want deep loving, sexual friendships in their life.

3) The older we get, the more we realize that there is no Mr or Ms Everything; that one person cannot possible meet our every need.

4) Women in menopause tend to have a lower sex drive. If we are in a long term partnership, a new lover may be just the thing that wakes our sexuality back up and we tend to take better care of ourselves. And finally, an outside relationship can bring more passion into your long term partnership.

5) And finally, many men have wives who are no longer interested in sex due to menopause or illness. But they have no intention of leaving their marriage. Those men often seek mistresses or escorts and cheat and lie about it. I love to teach those men how to have an honest conversation with their a-sexual wives.

Listen to my radio interviews:

http://www.polychat.org/post/140641161670/episode-25-w-sumati-sparks

http://www.blogtalkradio.com/enchanted-radio-network/2016/02/02/right-on-time-dating-guest-sumati-sparkseverything-you-always-wanted-to-know