I'm in mellow madness. Ripened already. Life is good. Its about happiness of heart and mind. Being content. Believe in the Five S's? Smart - the BRAIN is the sexiest of male organs -- it powers the imagination. Sexy - have the confidence to be yourself. Spontaneous - sometimes you have to go with your heart or your gut. Safe - no drugs, excessive drinking or unsafe sex. Sane - we all have our idiosyncrasies. They shouldn't run or rule our lives.