I am a female living in NYC and working as a creative professional in the entertainment industry. I started this blog because I am one of many people who identify as a Grey-A and desire intimacy in my life. For years I described myself as a Shady- sexual, lol because though I desired sex, I was not attracted to many people. Honestly almost no one. Discovering that I was a Grey-A or Ace as it is sometimes called, I felt the need to share my eventful dating experiences; perhaps to help others identify, as well as to let them know they are not alone.