vani

MALAYSIA

All is Well ! Hi, my name is Vani, a married woman with 2 lovely kids. I'm a woman striving to be independent each day in all the ways i can.Here's my life story in short that i wish to share with all of you.

My married life of 7 years was a love marriage but it is full of struggles because of my mother in law who is very very dominant. She wants everything under her control that i cannot do anything or take decision on my own.Each day of my life was filled with pain and cries that i even thought of running away from home.No words can best describe the mental suffering that i went thru.But, when i got pregnant with my first child,i couldn't do anything but to be patience.Two years later, my second son was born.

Despite, the mental trauma that i had, i felt happy when i saw my kids innocent face,their adorable smiles which really lightens the burden i carried in my heart. The years goes by,older people get more older, my mother in law too. She had fallen sick several times critically and had to be hospitalized.During her days of unwell, i am the one who take care of her till her recovery. Now, when she recovered, i noticed a lot of positive changes in her. She being more kind and nice to me and even volunteer to help me with my daily house chores. Weird right?? By the way, i'm glad this happens. At last, we can live peacefully together under one roof.

Even though, the past hurts terribly but FORGIVENESS IS A GREAT VIRTUE my mother had taught me since i'm a child. No matter what a person must learn to let go the past otherwise no one would live happy and peacefully in their lives forever.

Thus, forgetting the past and starting fresh is my only option. The pain and struggles for 7 years had taught me to be a stronger woman to face any challenges in life.

Now i am on a mission to create a happy and meaningful life for me and my family. I am so passionate about spreading positivity, inspire and motivate all the womens out there. I have created http://allinallindependentwomen.wordpress.com as my first ever blog in a believe it can serve as an inspirational blog to every women who need a charge of battery in their everyday life. So, lets DREAM, EXPLORE and DISCOVER together the beautiful life that GOD had gifted us.

Thanks for reading.

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