Woman Scorned by...

I was recently informed by my charming & I thought very loving partner of five years, Shawn Mende, that he was moving out of our home....out of nowhere...Shocking!!

What was really shocking was when I found out that he had not rented an apartment as he had told me, but rather had moved directly from my bed to the bed of his physical therapist, Kristin Raymond DPT, whom he had been seeing for about six weeks for a medical issue. He informed me that they had developed a relationship and were now in a "whirlwind romance".

In trying to make sense of this, I have figured out many lies that he told me over the course of our time together and can now see that this was not his first time cheating or lying. I was blind to this side of his nature and chose to trust him whenever any 'doubts' arose. I was pulled in by his amazing charm.

I want to make this pattern known to all.

I was informed by Kristin that he told her that he was single when he came in, in January (although revelation of this lie did not seem reason enough for her to end the 'relationship'. As he seems to be starting again on a base of charming, cheating and lying, my opinion is that he will never change. This is sad to me because I really was fooled by him to think he was one of 'the good ones' & as I care about the man I thought I knew, I honestly wish he was.

His behavior, as I see it in retrospect is pathological. Please, don't be fooled too.

Check out this well written blog that I really identified with http://www.lisaescott.com/forum/2010/10/03/recovering-narcissistic-relationship