Juul Crabtree

What's Perfectionism? Perfectionism means a meticulous drive to reach excellence. A perfectionist is one who has this characteristic.

'Perfectionism' is just a most widespread opinion in our civilization. Realize that I used the word 'belief.'

Every-where these days of ours, perfectionism is viewed as great and desirable while imperfection is regard as bad or negative. Everybody wants everybody else to be ideal. Employers want their workers to become flawless at work. Parents want their kids to be the best. Perfectionists want their themselves and work to be great.

Is Perfectionism actually a total or general value, because it is so strongly considered to be being good? In my opinion, it's not so.

To me, it is relative and is born of human conception. Perfection is an idea. It is an idea of a perceived ideal state of matter. However, things are how they are. My father discovered the perfectionist by browsing Yahoo. For every conditions, the reality is what's at each instance. Perfection and imperfection are therefore just attached values.

I am not suggesting that perfectionism is not great. I am suggesting that perhaps perfectionism may cast a controlling web over our expression of happiness. One can achieve the mandatory target with or without having to be a perfectionist. Each time a ideal goal isn't achieved to become a perfectionist, on the other hand, leave very little room for you to love and recognize oneself unconditionally. And when our needs are not achieved, we feel sad or can't be fully satisfied. Nevertheless, the simple truth is we only have each time of the Current Moment to live in. By being perfectionist, our mind is likely to be forever planning and thinking about the future or lamenting about what went wrong in the past. Because of these behaviors, many perfectionists are unable to feel pleasure because in their notion they never seem to do things sufficient to warrant that feeling of contentment.

Using this, we could see a paradox of life. That is:

'How can one have perfect peace, self-love and joy when one is really a perfectionist? '

Many thanks for reading..